Psychology

What We Learned From Mike Brown, Eric Garner, and Ferguson (Part 2)

What We Learned From Mike Brown, Eric Garner, and Ferguson (Part 2)

Reading Time: 5 minutesIn Part 1, we covered the impact of the Ferguson saga on community organizing, race relations, and police vigilance. The following are more excerpts from that conversation, with a focus on what political activists can learn from these events. My commentary follows each blocked quote. Let’s continue:

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What We Learned From Mike Brown, Eric Garner, and Ferguson (Part 1)

What We Learned From Mike Brown, Eric Garner, and Ferguson (Part 1)

Reading Time: 6 minutesI enjoy discussions with friends. Last week, I had a conversation with friends about Ferguson, MO and the aftermath of the Darren Wilson decision. Yahoo story on Ferguson: https://news.yahoo.com/mayor-vows-rebuild-riot-torn-us-town-ferguson-200210678.html We explored police misconduct, misguided protests, and suggestions for how blacks (and America at large) can move forward. This article will not focus on whether officer Darren

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Parenting and The Dangers Of The Self-Esteem Movement

Parenting and The Dangers Of The Self-Esteem Movement

Reading Time: 4 minutesThere’s a growing ‘Self-Esteem’ movement in parenting circles. Advocates are pushing the idea that constant praise and minimal exposure to struggle are the keys to raising happy, productive children. We can thank them for the elimination of games of Tag in school playgrounds and youth sports leagues that forbid score-keeping. I’m not a parent, but I’m

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You Can’t Make Them Love You (Part 1)

Reading Time: 2 minutesOver at matchmaker Paul C. Brunson’s website, you’ll find an abridged version of my latest guest post: http://paulcbrunson.com/2014/02/4-ways-to-tilt-the-odds-of-love-in-your-favor/ If you’d like to read the article in its entirety—a two-part special—I’ve posted it below.[[MORE]] ———————————- Certain skills can be enhanced with practice. They’re usually mechanical in nature, where one learns proper technique and performance increases with repetition

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How To Gain Someone’s Trust: Tips From An FBI Agent

Reading Time: < 1 minuteOver at Farnam Street Blog, a member of the FBI’s Counterintelligence Division drops five tips for winning the trust of the people around you: What are some strategies to build rapport while giving a talk, presentation, or interview? Ego Suspension / self-deprecating humor… Make it all about them! How is the information you are chatting

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On The Lack of Diversity in Hollywood

Reading Time: 5 minutesA friend of mine is a part of the comedy circuit out in Los Angeles. The lack of diversity in Hollywood acting and comedy circles was one of our recent topics of conversation. That discussion has been pushed into the national spotlight by Saturday Night Live’s most recent hire.  These two articles are pertinent as well: http://defamer.gawker.com/in-the-white-room-with-black-writers-hollywoods-dive-1486789620

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