The (Wo)man in the Mirror: 5 Practices for Getting Out of Your Own Way
The following is a guest post I published on matchmaker Paul C. Brunson’s website back in 2013. It disappeared down the internet rabbit hole, so I’m reposting it here. —
Relationships
Grace: Why You Need More of It
Grace: The willingness to embrace someone—or something—despite imperfection.
When Sacrificing Isn’t: The Hidden Benefits of Service
Proverbs 11:24-25: “There is that scattereth, and yet increaseth; and there is that withholdeth more than is meet, but it tendeth to poverty. The liberal soul shall be made fat: and he that watereth shall be watered also himself.” Matthew 10:39: “He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life …
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Boundaries Elevate Relationships and Enhance Quality of Life: How To Get Yours in Order
Over at Women 2.0, my latest piece on boundaries: When deciding who and what get your attention, you need hard stances on what you value most, what you’ll prioritize above all else, and what you’ll get to if time and availability allow. Stipulating what behaviors you’ll tolerate from yourself and others; that’s a prerequisite for …
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“Honesty” is the Superpower Hiding in Plain Sight
Over at ENSPIRE Magazine, my latest article: When your conduct is an independent variable, not a function of the whims of the moment, people can depend on you. There are fewer concerns about hidden agendas and fair-weather friendship; others can turn to you and share experiences they are not comfortable sharing with others. That’s …
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“It IS You, Not Me.”: 4 Love Truisms You Won’t Find on a Hallmark Card
On the eve of Valentine’s Day, four romantic proverbs to keep you sane:
Old Lessons are Allies for New Experiences
Now that we’re past the “New Year” euphoria that hits every time we flip the calendar, some tried-and-true lessons for making the most of the rest of the year…
Smart Gift Givers Earn More Cash and Enjoy Better Relationships: Here’s How You Can Become One (without spending a penny)
My latest piece, over at tech influencer Women 2.0…. The (Smart) Person’s Guide to Giving Better Gifts: Sure, it’s the thought that counts, but “empathy” remains the name of the game. The average gift is like a free sample at Costco; they’re good, we’ll accept them, but they leave us wanting more. Be a value-add …
“What Do I Do With My Life?”: 4 Steps to Hearing God’s Will for Your Career, Relationships, and Future
image credit: James Whitley: The Gospel of Nintendo “How can I hear God’s direction for my life?” That’s one of the most common questions bedeviling young and old. Doubly-so during graduation season.
The Gift of Mortality (and other post-New Year’s Lessons)
First, thanks for your responses to my previous entry, asking what you would like to see from this site going forward. Your requests will fuel much of the content that hits JTTG in the coming months. I experienced a health scare a few weeks back. Gave me plenty of time to think.